I haven't been writing lately and the reason is simple, I haven't had enough writing fuel. In short words; I'm too happy! I don't know about you, but for me to really write I need to be angry about something, which really haven't been the case these past weeks.

A few weeks ago I quit my job, the reason was simple. I decided that since this was the last summer my friends were actually in Ås rather then Trondheim I simply could not waste the rest of it working every day, besides the fact that I heard I just lost my vacation due to swine flue spreading amongst the workers on the island sorta helped the decision forward, but it's great and I haven't been regretting a single second of it. I've spent the past weeks doing almost all the things I've been wanting to do for the summer, hanging out with friends, staying up way too late, lying in the grass watching the awesome summer nights, grilling hamburgers and drinking cold beer as well as playing D&D and other games. The only thing I haven't done yet actually is going to the beach (or at least taking a bath somewhere outside), but the weather have kinda disapointed so to say, but I ain't complaining.

For this segment however I'd like to write about something that annoys me greatly, girlfriends! Well not ALL kinds of girlfriends, mostly they are really nice, but this is a specific kind of girlfriends that keeps my friends away from seeing me and my other friends and that's really annoying.

The combination of control-freak girl and guy-without-spine seems to be a really common mixture in my eyes. In short; when a girl that loves to dominate the situation and control things meets a guy who is just too much of a coward to stand up for himself meets each other its a perfect match most of the time, or so it seams.

What I'm trying to say is that some girlfriends just loves to dominate their boyfriends so much that they actually give them certain times when they have to be home at night, wait isn't that what my mom used to do when I was younger? It happens with many of my friends who gets involved in certain relationships and I'm starting to get sick of it.

Now I KNOW that when you have a girlfriend you aren't supposed to be running away with your friends every night coming home early in the morning drunk, I understand that your girlfriend wants you to sleep in the same bed as her and spend some time with her, but that doesn't mean you should constantly be controlled by her? In my opinion, when a guy is out with his friends, let him have that night with his friends, and rather let him make up for it by spending a full night with his girlfriend. I'm so tired of my friends starting to receive phone calls around 23:00 with a voice shouting in the other end followed by a "I have to go now..." on their part. I mean COME ON, they are in their twenties for the love of god, can't we save this for the marriage part? Do certain girls really need to dominate their boyfriends so much that they can't even spend a FUCKING night out with their friends?

Whew this became emotional, guess I'm really into this. Can't help it though because it's annoying the hell out of me. Anyway to sum it up nice and tight, why do serious relationships mean the guy have to bind himself in iron shackles? Isn't there something called a nice balance where they guy can actually keep living his life WHILE focusing on his beloved? I guess not...